Curated Mod List (23.3gb worth of files fully functional)

Mods that require Lenny's Mod Loader 
https://www.rdr2mods.com/downloads/rdr2/tools/76-lennys-mod-loader-rdr/

Some of these mods conflict so the order in which I put them is very important to resolve compatiblity.

( These two require ASi files as well)
Sgt Joe Bank Robberies https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/1079
Project New Austin https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/979

Realistic Combat Overhaul https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/675
Better Horses https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/842 
Binocular Fix https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5435 
RSpects Weapon Strap Overhaul https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5312 
Crime and Law Rebalance https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/569 
Fuck Dominoes https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5448 
GunFX https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/1186
HD Texture Unlocker https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5454 
Herbalist https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/1457
Online Button Remover https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2057 
Improvements in Blood https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2371 
Picoleto's Classic Blood https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5215 
Increased Geometry Level of Detail https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/3751 
Detailed Graphics Info https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5480
More Perfect Animals https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/4761 
No Kill Cam Filter https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/1057 
Penetration https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2605 
Rain Particles Fix https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5452
Remove Satchel https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2235 
Bandolier Fix https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/3551 
Silent Deadeye https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/3073 
Terrain Textures Overhaul https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2189 
Red Dead Offline https://www.rdr2mods.com/downloads/rdr2/weapons/103-red-dead-offline/ 
WhyEm's DLC (RDO Edition) https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/671 
More Pretty Gun https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2024 
LITE - Multiplayer Asset Enabler https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5304
RDR2 Spawns Fix https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5495 

As for Visual Mods there are 3 I recommend to try and see which one you like more. 
Must be loaded 1st in mod load order. 
(Require Lenny's Mod Loader)
WhyStopNow's Unoffical Visual Mod https://discord.com/invite/UmbDaBCk
Visual Redemption Vanilla Art Style No Vignette https://www.razedmods.com/red-dead-redemption-ii 
Collyrium Redone https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/3311
Of course these are very much subjected to preference. 
Use whatever one you like the most currently I am using WhyStopNow's Unofficial Visual Mod

Mods that require both RDR2 Scripthook V2 and Ultimate ASI Loader
https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/1472
https://github.com/ThirteenAG/Ultimate-ASI-Loader/releases

Animals Finder https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5241
Bandit Hideouts https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2213 
Collectables in Range https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2918 
Cut Dialogue Enhanced https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/3053 
No Honor System https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2215 
Duels https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/500 
Gun Tricks https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/818 
Instant Travel https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/331 
No More Dead Eye Filter https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2707 
No Bullet Trail https://www.rdr2mods.com/downloads/rdr2/scripts/58-no-bullet-trail-mod/ 
No Hitmarker https://www.rdr2mods.com/downloads/rdr2/scripts/55-no-hitmarker-mod/ 
Optonal Dual Wield https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/3382 
Quick Outfit Customization https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/404 
Ped Damage Overhaul https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/184 
Plants Finder https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/849
Rampage Trainer https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/233 
Sadie Companion https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/5316 
Smoking Complete https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2827 
Tie Your Lasso https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/197 
Toggle Run Fix (Keyboard) https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/704 

Miscellaneous Mods (No tool requirements)

Legal Screen Skip https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/28 
DLSS Tweaks https://www.nexusmods.com/reddeadredemption2/mods/2072

